Could there be a model for our societies to modernise and develop in such way that the loneliness and even poverty of the older generation is not globalised into our own?
The cultures of the East have always accorded a special status
to age and the aged. Life in the extended family - with at least three generations
under one roof - was a customary form of coexistence, allowing several children
to be raised.
With the globalisation of the Western industrial society and its greater focus
on the individual, with the demands of a mobile communication society in terms
of flexibility in time and space, conditions even in Malaysia have undergone
such a radical change that, particularly in the urban centres, the nuclear family
has become the norm, and loneliness a problem that inevitably accompanies old
age. The picture portrayed is an illusion, a piece of fanciful thinking that
springs from the mind of a lonely old man, living in narrow, cramped surroundings:
the old man is surrounded by his granddaughter, depicted here thrice; there
is sufficient space around, for the picture provides an unhindered view of yet
another room with a visitor, while a young couple looking in through the window
displays a keen interest in what is happening inside the house.
What can be done to convert this piece of illusion into reality? Could our societies
be modernised and developed in such a way that the loneliness and even poverty
of the older generation is not globalised into our own?